Love is friend ship ............

“Guy & girl can not be friends if they find each other attractive “Said Harry to Sally, in Movie When Harry met Sally .”Ladka aur Ladki Kabhi Dost Nahi hote “Mohnish behl in Maine Pyaar Kiya .” My mind goes in to deep thought after listening to these dialogues ,more so because many of us have over the years shared ,what you Call , “Platonic” relationship with opposite sex. This outlook or concept will be more put forward or sometimes sweared by girls .because Girls by and large are conservative in their approach of finding Mr. Perfect & only when they are very sure they do start of thinking of giving relationship a new meaning .Until then as they claim they are “Just Friends”.”Maine tumhe kabhi us nazar se nahin dekha “But guys on other hand does not think that way they are more Bullish (as opposite of Conservative, to mean Robostic ) in their approach and make their decision more quickly then girls ,many will swear it is Love at First Sight .Hence start of it as “She is the one “ until they come across something which will prove or make the relationship something else.atleast with girls they find attractive .

This lead us to eternal or illusive question, Why two people who swear to be friend for life can t be life partners .

Some people are friendly by nature , you observe in office ,parties or any social gathering there will be people will move from one person to other .While some will stick to people they know .So lots depends on basic nature of person ,person who is more friendlier will have more opportunities of meeting new people .So person who meets lots of people or have lots of friends may require something special in person to have a romantic link up .Been there seen that people does not excite them, at all .So you may be nice ,friendly , good natured & too good to be their best friends but will not have uniqueness to be some one special .

Same theory can be extended to bring “Opposites attract” .All or say most of us make friendship due to similar background or similar tastes like same school , college, office profession, course, neighborhood, Dads are friends, etc .This & due to some strange reason most of our friends share some strange similarity.
Hence when we come across some one whose is opposite in nature he become much more interesting Also they will compliment each other.

Another theory is being in comfort zone..it is matter of preference & choice So when some one is your best friend you don’t want to risk it all .Other person may or may not be interested so whether it is worth risking such a great friendship .This dilemma haunt many of us & most decide otherwise . Further more there is this emotional attachment versus physical attraction Also while making friends who only need to have an emotional attachment not physical attraction however while to be romantically linked you need to have physical attraction however small importance you attach to it .

So Boys & girls can be friends , but can fall in love gradually .So as shahrukh said in kuch kuch hota hai “Pyaar Dosti Hai “